BONSHEÁ Making Light of the Dark   

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BONSHEÁ – Yaqui Indian

meaning ‘out of the darkness into the light’

A startling memoir of one woman escaping an abusive marriage and oppressive religious cults and trying to

find "justice" in a failed system. Anyone concerned with issues of abuse and injustice in America should read this book. 

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BONSHEÁ Making Light of the Dark  

 

by Coral Anika Theill

 

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I Lived the Handmaid's Tale in Independence, Oregon

During my marriage I was required to be a "helpmeet" in a world like the one from  Margaret Atwood's dystopian novel "The Handmaid’s Tale.  My abuser used coercive control, isolation and intimidation tactics to strip me of my personhood, safety and freedoms as a United States citizen.

 

MOTHER of 8 Battered & Raped in the Name of 'God':  OPEN LETTER To Oregon Governor Brown, Lawmakers, Advocates & Clergy

#METOO City of Monmouth Oregon Condones Rape, Domestic Violence & Child Abuse

About the Author  

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Contributing Writer for Leatherneck Magazine  

 

Book Reviews

"I recommend this book for health care providers, those in the criminal justice system, and volunteers or helpers of any kind to get insights and clarity about the complex dynamics of domestic violence and its toxic effects to individuals and society-and what needs to be done to eradicate this pandemic problem." – Barbara A. May, PhD, RN PMHP, Professor of Nursing, Linfield College, Portland, Oregon

"Every so often a book is written that touches the heart. This is such a book. BONSHEÁ is an unforgettable story that will leave an indelible mark on your psyche." – Adaline Archer, Court reporter, (Ret.) Washington

"BONSHEÁ illustrates the degree to which the legal system can also be used as a vehicle to further perpetuate abuse even after the victim has chosen to take a stand against the abuse." – John Haroldson, District Attorney, Benton County District Attorney's Office, Corvallis, Oregon

"I would love to discover that every judge, every minister, every person who seeks justice, would read this book! I have consulted thousands of abused women and know that the injustice Coral suffered, the loss of her children, is an all to common experience of abused women seeking to protect their children and to save themselves." - Patricia Evans, Author,The Verbally Abusive Relationship, California

"A must-read for anyone impacted by abuse, marriage, divorce/family court to prepare to fight for your children’s lives in the current family court system. Advocates, attorneys, judges, and other professionals working in family court must read this account to understand the lengths abusers will go to continue to control and torture their abuse victims. I applaud Coral Theill for the courage she shows making light of the dark secrets within the fundamental churches and the collusion of the family court system." - Debra Wingfield, Trainer, Author, and Case Consultant, North Carolina

"You stand TALL amongst many. We're all wounded but some choose to heal so that they can heal others. Continue your incredible work. Even here in Africa, we tell your story....God bless you for this gift to all womenfolk. Look at what it's doing for all of us in the world. It's reaching beyond the sea and cultural divides. I'm at a loss for words. Thank you, Coral, for your light." - Nana Ngobese​-Nxumala, Director, Woman Forward Political Party, South Africa

"The brutal misery you have endured and comeback from is astounding. The way you have harnessed that unspeakable and unstoppable pain leaves me along with many others in awe. The impact you are making is important and vital to ALL women who can easily find themselves in this scenario." - Sandy Earley, Chicago, Illinois

"Your memoir, BONSHEÁ Making Light of the Dark, is an amazing revelation of the corrupt underbelly of our government. Abusers thrive with the help of the institutions that are supposed to protect. Your survival is even more amazing and a testimony to the power of our inner selves." - Donna Buiso, Author, Nothing But My Voice

 

Dear friends, readers and fellows survivors,

BONSHEÁ Making Light of the Dark shares my search for freedom and light in a society based on patriarchal religion and laws. It openly speaks about the ideas and beliefs in our society which foster sexism, racism, the denigration of human rights and the intolerance of difference. My documentation exposes the dark side of human nature when all people are not valued. A healthy society must have the courage to address these issues, speak about them, examine them and bring them to light. Indifference encourages, "silent violence"-the type of violence I experienced in my home, in the community, religious circles and judicial system. Nobel laureate, Elie Wiesel states, "The indifference to suffering makes the human inhumane."

 

I have poured tremendous time, thought, love, and resources into my website and my published memoir, BONSHEA Making Light of the Dark, which remains FREE. I hope you find encouragement,  insights and wisdom from my writings and reflections.  BONSHEA Making Light of the Dark addresses trauma recovery & healing, maternal alienation and deprivation, legal stalking, PTSD, judicial injustice, ritual/spiritual abuse and Christian fundamental 'cults,' misogyny, racism, toxic masculinity and sexism. My website includes my articles, blogs, videos/interviews and recommended books and resources for domestic violence, rape, marital rape, and child abuse/molestation victims/survivors.     If my website and memoir have been helpful to you or someone you know, please consider supporting my labor of love by supporting my business, Coral's Beeswax Candles & Keepsakes or "with a DONATION HERE  Your support will help me in my  research, writings and advocacy for trauma survivors and wounded warriors.  

             

*CORAL ANIKA THEILL is available for Private Phone Consultations,

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THANK YOU. 

 

Coral Anika Theill 

Author, Advocate, Speaker & Reporter

D.V., Rape & Ritual Abuse Victim/Survivor

Alienated & Erased Mother of 8

Memoir:  BONSHEA Making Light of the Dark

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Website:  www.coralanikatheill.com

 

This site does not provide legal or law enforcement help or sanctuary shelter. 

Natl' DV Hotline:  1-800-799-SAFE     Natl' Suicide Prevention HOTLINE:  1-800-273-8255

 

Coral Anika Theill was a victim of MARITAL RAPE while married to her abusive husband, Marty Warner, Independence Oregon.  Coral's story of survival was published March 1, 2018 in RECLAMATION:  A Survivor's Anthology 

by the NYC Alliance Against Sexual Assault & Survivor's Magazine

OPEN LETTER: Alienated & Erased Protective Mother Shares Her Story with Kalie Cannon - The Handmaiden's Tale

 

Coral Anika Theill in the News:  National Catholic Reporter "Prospective Supreme Court nominee Judge Amy Barrett puts spotlight on People of Praise" 

Jul 6, 2018 by Heidi Schlumpf  

READ MORE about the PEOPLE OF PRAISE Catholic/Charismatic "cult'  

Spiritual Abuse, Bondage & Marks of a Christian Cult by Coral Anika Theill

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Coral Anika Theill at Battered Mothers Child Custody Conference, The George Washington University Law School

 

Coral's Story:  WALL OF SHAME - Maternal Alienation is the Ultimate Hate Crime

Coral Theill's July 2, 2016 Two Hour Interview "Patriarchy"

August 12, 2017 Radio Interview:  Financial Abuse & Domestic Violence

Judge Albin Norblad Laughs about Rape:  How I Became a Brood Mare & Egg Donor for the Church & State

 

Exposing Enablers & Abuse in the Natl' Naval Officers Association & the Natl' Montford Point Marines

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Coral Anika Theill & U.S. Senator Jeff Merkley

                Washington D.C. 

 

 

(DALLAS, OR)  Coral Theill's case history in Oregon courts has been documented by physicians and advocates, including her counselor and mentor of 18 years,   Barbara A. May, PhD, RN PMHP, Professor Emerita of Nursing, Linfield College, Portland, Oregon, as one of Oregon's most violent and obscene rape and domestic violence cases. Ms. Theill has lived under a “state address protection program” from her ex-husband, Marty Warner, Independence, Oregon, since 1999.  In honor of Mother’s Day 2014, The Pixel Project featured Coral Anika Theill's Interview in the Survivor Stories Blog Interview Project. August 13, 2014, Ms. Theill submitted a request for a hearing with the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights and on August 1, 2015, August 1, 2016 and January 31, 2017 Coral Theill's Oregon case history was filed with the Claim Submitted to the United Nations on Modern Day Human Rights Crisis. On January 5, 2016, Ms. Theill's Polk County Oregon case history was submitted to the United States Supreme Court as a 'Declaration of Support' in Adkins v Adkins #15-754 addressing the due process violations in family courts across the United States.  Coral also participated in YOKO ONO'S ARISING PROJECT in Iceland, October 2016.

 

 

BIO:  Coral Anika Theill's published works address abuse and trauma recovery and most recently, wounded Marines and Montford Point Marines. Her writings have encouraged and inspired numerous trauma victims and wounded Marines and service members recovering from PTS and TBI. Coral's positive insights as a survivor have also earned the respect of clinical therapists, advocates, professors and authors.  BONSHEÁ has been used as a college text for nursing students at Linfield College, Portland, Oregon. In July 2011 Coral received the Lester Granger Award from the National Montford Point Marine Association. In 2002 she received a Writer's Award from iUniverse Publishing Co. She is also a contributing writer for Short Rations for Marines. Her October 2011 Leatherneck Magazine article, "Invisible Battle Scars:  Confronting the Stigma Associated with PTS & TBI," is used as a college text for the Marine Corps University, Quantico, Virginia and is cited in the U.S. Army War College "Psychological Health Notes."    Coral Anika Theill's story of survival was published March 1, 2018 in RECLAMATION:  A Survivor's Anthology by the NYC Alliance Against Sexual Assault & Survivor's Magazine.

“Fathers who battered the mother are twice as likely to seek sole custody of their children as are non-violent fathers.”

—American Psychological Association

                                      

Two hundred years ago a system of legal slavery allowed for the ownership of human beings as if they were livestock. Children were ripped away from their mothers with as little consideration as separating a calf from a cow. In this country today, extreme forms of paternalistic religion promote an institutional form of slavery where a woman must be totally obedient to a husband who has absolute control of her life. The wife’s lot is to obey and bear children. If she rebels and chooses to save herself by escaping from this life, the father—supported by the church community and often by the court system, can forcibly strip a child away from the mother

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Upper L to R:  My youngest son of eight children, Zachary David Warner, 2013, Coral Theill and Zachary 1995, Independence, Oregon

Lower L to R:  Judge Paula Brownhill, Astoria, Oregon, Judge Albin Norblad, Coral Theill's memoir cover, BONSHEA Making Light of the Dark

Court Sanctioned Kidnapping via Family Court:  Happy Birthday Zachary David Warner by Coral Anika Theill

Many mothers who seek safety from abuse are routinely prohibited from having even the most basic contact with their own children, not because they were unfit parents, but because they were outspent, out represented, and out-maneuvered in a court atmosphere that seems to favor those who inflict domestic violence.

 

Women trapped in relationships with abusers come to expect horrendous misbehavior and violence from their partners.  What they cannot fathom is the maddening reinforcement commonly provided to abusive men by the justice system, the religious community and the public at large.  Tragically, the key abuse collaborator is the custody judge.  Of all the bad actors in a battered woman's life, none wield more power over a mother and her children.  It is beyond infuriating when women discover that their custody judges either lack understanding of domestic violence or intentionally collude with abusers to take away women's financial resources and, even worse, their children.

 

Forcibly taking a mother's children, and then controlling her emotionally by withholding contact must be publicly recognized as one of the greatest forms of 'mis-use' of the American justice system and one of the greatest hidden vehicles for wide-spread socially approved physical and emotional abuse and control.

 

I have concluded by my present circumstances, that the judicial and religious organizations and people who have aided my former husband, Marty Warner, all embrace the same views regarding women and children. They believe male power is absolute over women and great harm will come to those who question and/or defy that power. I believe this is the mentality that causes and perpetuates abuse. 

(Learn more about the danger of Dominionist Christian ideology and practices.)

 

"What happened to Coral is pure evil and a testimony to the vulnerability we all have. Whose side are we on?

- Christine Pahl, MS, LPC, Oregon

 

On March 10, 1996, I was forced, by an Order of the Court, and by my ex-husband, Marty Warner, his attorney, his family and religious supporters, to do something that raged against my good conscience, my common sense and against all my motherly instincts. After a temporary custody hearing, a Court Order signed by Judge Albin Norblad forcibly removed my nursing baby and two youngest children from me. I obeyed the Court Order and gave my children over to my ex-husband. I drove to the hospital, rented a breast-pump and later collapsed and went into shock. I could not understand what had happened and why. I have not yet recovered from the shock; perhaps I never will....

When I sought safety for my children and myself in January 1996, the Court allowed me to live in hiding with my young children prior to the court hearings, due to the testimony and affidavits of numerous witnesses.  I retained an attorney and reported the crimes that had been committed against my children and me.

The price for my own safety and freedom in 1996 was an imposed, unnatural and unwanted separation from my eight children, including my nursing infant. The injustice committed against me is not just the physical separation from my children, but the willful desecration of the mother-child relationship and bond, a sacred spiritual and emotional entity.

"As I watch the news today, I see all sorts of other cases pretty similar to Coral Theill's. The thing that I just do not understand about our "system" is why or how can we allow what happened to Coral (and is still happening) to happen. Some are held against their will, raped, battered, abused and then glorified as are the three ladies from Ohio. Guys are considered "heroes" as a result of being the person to make a phone call to the authorities about it.

 

"Then we have those in the same situation (and maybe even worse) who are blamed, ostracized from society, stripped not only of their children but of their dignity, ridiculed, and even forced into hiding and receive absolutely no support from anyone in the justice system who by the way are supposed to be by the people, of the people and for the people." - Excerpt of letter from Sergeant Major Brian K. Jackson, USMC (Ret) to Mr. Joel Corcoran, U.S. Senator Jeff Merkley's assistant, May 9, 2013  

Read Coral Theill's Letter & Document presented to

U.S. Senator Jeff Merkley July 2014

Court & Church Sanctioned Domestic Violence & Child Abuse

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